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Friday, November 27, 2009

The Best Laid Plans

When I called my parents to let them know on Wednesday that my daughter's pediatrician declared her too ill to be around her ailing great grandpa for Thanksgiving, my dad's reply was, "The best laid plans.... Welcome to the world of parenthood." Not only did the doctor say we couldn't go, she said she we absolutely should not let Baby Bean around him because she could be he cause of doing him in. The poor little darling was soooo sick. The sickest she has been yet.

Remember how I said I had to go get her from daycare on Tuesday? Well, I wasted no time getting her a doctor appointment Wednesday morning. We were at the doctor for over an hour and a half while she was tested for the flu, given a major shot of antibiotics to both legs to hopefully speed the recovery of her ear infection, had a complete blood count drawn, and had to wait to ensure there was no allergic reaction to the antibiotics. Let me tell you, that was the hardest day of my parenting career so far. It was miserable for my child. She fell asleep in my arms many times only to be woken for shots or finger pricks. I couldn't wait to get her out of there. She was so sick and miserable she literally spent the rest of the day sleeping. It took moving a mountain to get her to wake up long enough to eat a bottle and then she was right back out.

I called my husband as soon as I found out we weren't going to his grandpa's, and then called my MIL to let her know. Here is the amazing thing, I didn't panic. I was now looking at Thanksgiving for 2.5 and had nothing for it at home, or so I thought. I asked my MIL to send me a recipe for one of Hub's all-time favorite dishes. She sent me two, one for spinach Madeline and one for chocolate pecan pie. So that night after the baby was in bed, I went to the grocery store to grab the necessary missing ingredients and a turkey breast.

If this was going to be our first Thanksgiving at home and alone, I was going to make it great dang it! I was amazed at just how many ingredients I already had on hand. Last night I stayed up to prep the spinach and pie, both of which turned out awesome! I didn't think to buy a pie crust at the store, but by some miracle had one pack of graham crackers at home, which turned into the most delicious crust.

I went all out. I made turkey, spinach Madeline, cheesy garlic potatoes with turkey gravy, stuffing, squash, rolls, and chocolate pecan pie. I have been so proud of myself all day, and I was literally beaming as the three of us sat down to our Thanksgiving feast. I have to say, I didn't use to like cooking, but now I LOVE it thanks to my fabulous husband who taught me how to cook and do it well.

Here is my first ever turkey. I was so stinking proud I wouldn't let Hubs cut it until I took a picture.


It was so beautiful and herb stuffed (thanks for the pointers Gord.on Rams.ey!). It was delicious. I did an awesome job.

Here is the fantastic spread I prepared (minus the chocolate pecan pie that was still chilling in the fridge [I also forgot to get a pic before eating {I KNOW!}]).


Please note the fine china. This was a very traditional gift from my parents on my wedding day. It is the first time it has seen the light of day since the contents were checked for breakage. I can't even tell you how gloaty I was to finally use it. Even Baby Bean got her own little plate.

I decided to let Baby Bean help herself to her dinner.

Here is Hubs helping her get a hold of her spoon.

He's helping her dish up some of the potatoes.

Here he assists her with bringing the full spoon to her mouth.

But she insisted on doing things her way...
holding the spoon with one hand while shoveling food into her mouth with the other.

She did make a few attempts to use her spoon though.
I think she was pretty pleased with the meal, as it was all over her smiling face.

When it came time to clean up, Sadie offered to help. Baby Bean didn't mind.


While the plans for the day were tossed out the window, I think it all turned out very well. Dinner was delicious and I loved being domestic. It was a very memorable Thanksgiving, and I enjoyed every second of it.

16 Thoughts:

AL said... [Reply to comment]

Way to go not letting the circumstances ruin a wonderful thanksgiving for your family! Fabulous job on the food!!

Hope your lil one is feeling much better.

C said... [Reply to comment]

Looks like you had a fabulous Thanksgiving! Hope your little one is feeling better soon!

ICLW

Heather said... [Reply to comment]

Good job on the cooking front! Now I'm hungry but it is 2am lol.

Love all the photos, especially third from the bottom.

Btw, who knitted bean a moss stitched baby bib? That's a reasonable amount of effort lol.

FIL's birthday fell on thanksgiving, so I kinda had some treats on thanksgiving (and had to cook a lot for it) despite us not celebrating it lol.

Chelle said... [Reply to comment]

Heather, my best friend who takes all of the milestone photo shoots made that bib. She actually made that one and a blue one. I love them. She did a wonderful job.

Rammi said... [Reply to comment]

That turkey looks delicious.

Laura said... [Reply to comment]

Hello from IComLeavWe. Baby Bean is very cute. My nephew used to hold his spoon while eating with his hands too. It was always funny, and messy. :)

Marla said... [Reply to comment]

Sorry Turkey Day didn't go as originally planned, but it sure looks like you made the best of it, and had a cozy holiday all to yourselves! Food looks yummy, and the pics are great!

Mya said... [Reply to comment]

It looks like you put together a lovely Thanksgiving dinner. I hope that your daughter is feeling better; she is absolutely adorable.

ICLW

twondra said... [Reply to comment]

Glad you had a great Thanksgiving despite the circumstances!! It looks sooooo great! Wish we could've come and eaten. :) :)

JourneyGirl & JourneyMan said... [Reply to comment]

Congrats to you on making such a wonderful and memorable Thanksgiving after it took a little stumble at the start.

Yum - your dinner looked delicious!

Life Happens said... [Reply to comment]

Looks like you had a nice intimate thanksgiving dinner with your family. I hope Baby Bean is feeling better.

Mazzy said... [Reply to comment]

I am sad to hear that your little bean was so sick and I sure hope she is feeling better now! Your holiday sounds plum wonderful to me, with the small and most important people in your life! I would love that sort of holiday and hope that someday we get a chance to do the exact some kind of thing.
*hugs*

Two Hands said... [Reply to comment]

I'm sorry you couldn't be with family, but there is something to be said for spending your holiday with your own little family. Looks like you did a fantastic job. I hope Baby Bean is back to 100% very soon.

Leah said... [Reply to comment]

So sorry to hear about Baby Bean being sick. It must be so hard to be a mama and see your baby not feeling well. I hope she is feeling much better.

Your meal looks delicious! You made the holiday so special for your family. That is wonderful.
:-D

Potters said... [Reply to comment]

Wow she did a great job of staying clean. I am completely jealous. Looks yummy. Next year you should come up and make me Thanksgiving dinner.

Anonymous said... [Reply to comment]

She has the sweetest smile ever, you can tell she is completely enjoying Thanksgiving dinner!

Isn't it amazing how having kids totally teaches you to adapt. Prior to kids I could not go with the flow, plans were plans and I didn't know how to recover when things changed quick. Having Seven really taught me that, nothing is certain, you take each day as it comes and enjoy what you get, even if it wasn't what you had originally planned. Kids are great!

PS...Thanksgiving dinner looks YUMMY!!!

 

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